It may be that she is not lost to you entirely. You and your mother returned. That means there is hope.

[ aka let's not fly off the handle in a targaryen rage please. ]

But I must ask, how do you fare? You have been through something no man should. Do you feel hale, and whole?

[ he is not the first resurrected man she has met, after all. jon had dearly struggled with his return. sansa had seen it, had fought to get him to have purpose again. ]